Thursday, July 30, 2009

2 going on 14

Here are the "teenager" phrases we've been hearing around the house lately- they are kind of funny when they come out of the mouth of a tiny 2 year old- they won't be so funny in a few years! :)

"Fine!"
"I'm mad at you!"
"I'm NOT pouting!"
"I'm not talking to you any more!"

(And trust me- we do not laugh when he says these, I know very well that that would add fuel to the fire. But that doesn't stop us from laughing after he goes to bed! :) )

itsy bitsy spider

arranged by Brecken

Friday, July 24, 2009

Thursday, July 23, 2009

dreams

My sister came over yesterday with her kids and friend Lindsey. We went out to breakfast this morning, and on the way there, Brecken started telling me about how a spider and snake bit his mouth, two fires burned him, and airplanes bonked him in the head and knocked him down. He was very serious about it and I realized he was telling me about his dreams last night. Boy, no wonder the kid was up all night crying- resulting in one tired mom this morning! I felt really bad for him for having these awful dreams. :(

Tonight, 20 minutes after he went to bed, he woke up crying again. I went in there and he told me "Mommy, I'm so scared." I asked what he was afraid of, and he said he was afraid of the airplanes. Oy- it might be a LONG night. Josh is in Casper for the coaching clinic so I'll be on my own... wish me luck! :)

Sunday, July 19, 2009

serenity...

...out my door tonight.




Saturday, July 18, 2009

friends

Brecken made a new friend while playing outside tonight. Our neighbors' 4 year old granddaughter from Laramie is visiting. She started waving and saying hi, and boy, did Brecken get excited! He said, "Mom! Somone's talking to me!!" He ran over and they were instant friends. They played bikes on our driveway, played in the sandbox in the back yard next door, played more bikes, the little girl (Cody, but I'm not sure if that's how she spells it) even asked him if he wanted to spend the night with her. HA! I told her that Brecken probably wouldn't like that because he was a little young still, but maybe in a couple years. :) When it was time for her to go eat dinner, she and Brecken gave each other the nicest, longest hug and blew kisses to each other and said "See you tomorrow!" It was dang cute.

We've been to Gillette and back since my last post. I'll try to blog about that trip tomorrow. Blogger has been weird the past couple days so I haven't gotten a chance.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

new post


New post on the photo blog!

Wednesday, July 08, 2009

fertile thoughts

I've added a link to blogs I read. I'd invite you to check it out, if you want to know more about infertility. It is written by a Reproductive Endocrinologist (RE), a doctor who specializes in infertility. He gets to write on both sides of the story- both as an RE and a parent who struggled with his wife through infertility to have a baby. Scroll down to the bottom and start with the first post- he has some fantastic information and good insight on what it's like to go through this.

I am in no way posting this to start a debate. I don't want to hear arguments. I've heard enough of them through our struggles and I'm not wanting more. I just want to put this out there so if you want to know more about what an infertile couple might go through, you can get it from someone that isn't just *bitter* about it, but someone who knows, both as a parent and a medical doctor who helps people who desperately want children, become parents. Someone who will tell you that in fact, "relaxing" does not help a medical problem. And adopting will not make you become pregnant one month later. And in fact, getting medical assistance such as IVF does not mean you will become pregnant with 9 children.

If you don't want to read about it, please don't. If you do, please do! He writes in a way that is very easy to read and you might enjoy it!

Tuesday, July 07, 2009

4th of Jul-EYE

What a fun past few days! We were originally supposed to head up to Gillette last Thursday after Josh got done teaching summer school. However, his kids worked really hard and finished on Tuesday morning so we took off on Tuesday afternoon. Ended up working out really well, because my mom was flying home from Europe on Wednesday and my dad had a closing out of town that day, so my mom was still able to have someone pick her up at the airport.

That night, Brecken woke up in the night saying he didn't feel good. I thought it was just that he was in a new bed, and I tucked him back in and he went back to sleep. At 1:30 am, he woke up again and was burning up. We got medicine down him and Josh went to get a temporal thermometer at Walmart (since our other one got wet in the ocean along with the stupid car keys and quit working). He said shopping there at 2:00 am was a nice treat- nice and empty! :) By the time he got back, Brecken's medicine had started working and his fever was down to 101.7 or something. I slept with him the rest of the night and in the morning, his fever was still there. So off to Urgent Care we went. This one is run by the hospital and I was really impressed!! The PA we saw was really nice and the whole facility was spotlessly clean and we were in and out very fast. Poor kid had an ear infection. This makes 6 in his left ear and 5 in his right. All he could do was cry and say "owie!!" We got three prescriptions filled (ear drops, ear numbing drops, and antibiotic) and gave him his first dose. That afternoon he was a new kid- laughing and playing again. Hooray!!
Everyone else (14 total people!) showed up Thursday and Friday. We had a great time seeing a lot of our family. And my mom and dad's neighbors were out of town, so we were able to have their house for bedrooms so nobody had to stay at a hotel. It was great!

Friday morning, a bunch of us headed out to the golf course to try out the new clubs my dad made for Brecken and my nephew Ryan. Brecken is in LOVE with golf and was pretty sad when it was time to go home and eat lunch. The clubs are quite heavy compared to his plastic ones, so swinging them took some getting used to. He never gave up though, he just kept on swinging!





That afternoon, we went down to a new waterpark that is part of a hotel in town. It was fun- there were two waterslides, a lazy river, and a really cute kids play area with little waterslides and fountains and stuff. We had a good couple of hours there. Brecken was shivering to death but he loves swimming so much that he did not want to leave!!

Saturday started off fabulous. We went to the parade and Brecken had a blast watching everything. Both little boys ended up filling their own gallon sized Ziplock with candy! Holy moly, that's a lot of candy! He had fun watching the horses and fire trucks and ambulances and all the other things going on.


After a BBQ and naptime, Brecken, Ryan, my sister, my cousin Ian, and myself went to the neighborhood park. Brecken loves parks so this was a great afternoon for him.



While at the park, I had an allergic reaction to the weeds and grass and everything else around outside. My eyes started itching something fierce, and when we got back in the car, I rubbed my eyes. Soon after, my eye formed a mass on the eyeball itself and it got hard to blink. Around 5:30, Josh and my sister took me to Urgent Care. We saw the same PA that saw Brecken. She donned a crazy looking helmet with special things to look in eyes and then sent us to the ER since she didn't know much about eyes and didn't want to mess it up. I appreciated that. And on our way out I told her that while I liked her, I hoped we didn't meet again for a 3rd time. :)

The ER took FOREVER, like I was expecting. I sent Josh home at 8:00, as everyone at home was getting ready to go out and do some fireworks. I wanted Brecken to have a dad to do them with, and besides, we had Brecken's car seat so they weren't able to get him anywhere unless Josh went home!! Kristen stayed with me and then my mom and dad came up so we had a car. After waiting in the exam room for over an hour and a half, we finally saw the doctor. She diagnosed me with Chemosis, which is the swelling of the eye tissue. There's some disgusting pictures on the internet if you want to google it. :) In addition, I have a scratched eyeball. AND, she made me tell her that I was overdue for a tetanus shot, so I had to get one of those, too!!! So one shot, a tube full of stuff as thick as neosporin, a prescription for eye drops, an eye exam, orders to NOT wear my contacts for 10 days (DANG IT!!), instructions to see my eye doctor this week, and a LOT of time later, I finally got to leave. Oy.

I missed doing the fireworks with Brecken, which I had really looked forward too. Last July 4, we had been up since 1 am to get on a plane and come home for a wedding, so Brecken was so tired that he made it through one sparkler before he crashed. This year he was excited to do them, so I'm completely bummed I missed it. However, we were out of the hospital at 9:30 so we were able to meet everyone else at the big fireworks show that Gillette puts on, so I was able to watch those with him. He loved every minute of it, even though it was almost 11:00 when we got back to go to bed!!

July 5 was my mom's birthday. Brecken had got to pick out her birthday cake from Dairy Queen. He originally wanted one with Santa and snowmen, but Dairy Queen didn't have that option in their book right now. :) So he picked out Lightning McQueen. He also insisted on party hats, but the only ones the store had were Transformers. So my mom had a McQueen/Transformers party! :)




Hope everyone else had a great 4th of July weekend!!